This always made me curious: if you're "talking" to someone and you do everything couples do i.e. have sex, hang out, buy each other things, do the day to day coupley shit, what is stopping them from actually being together? You're obviously capable of being in a relationship considering you can fight like yall all together and do the whole jealously bullshit and whatnot. So why not just BE TOGETHER? I always find myself in situations just like this. Where is not okay to talk to other people, I stay solid and hell and be that girl, but never actually have an official relationship. I guess that's perfect if you're the guy because you can have your cake and eat it too. But why not just be together? It made sense but it never made sense, if that makes sense lmao. If you're capable of being "baby this, baby that" and HAVING a relationship without having a "relationship" then what's stopping you from actually being in one? What would seriously change? There are always a million excuses and my favorite is "I'm not ready for a relationship." Well if you're not ready then maybe we should stop talking.... LOL. You're already IN a relationship basically! That shit just seriously boggles my mind. But I guess in certain circumstances just being the unofficial couple works out better but most of the time I just shake my head at it. But hey, I'm probably being the world's biggest hypocrite right now. But I shake my head at my own relationship every single day.